Our Shenanigans

Fighting the distance with. Zachary & Socorro.

uh. Been about three weeks and a half since everything. 
I think it’s time to let this blog go. 
This will be my last post from here, and then I’m deleting the blog for good  tomorrow morning. Sorry guys, if you’d like you can follow me to my personal blog. I’d love to hear from some of you guys, but if not that’s cool too. 

Personal here 

Hi guys. It’s been a long couple of days.

Over the past few weeks things have been coming up, and this weekend I finally decided that I need to be true to myself. 
I decided that I needed to break up with Zack, regardless of how perfect our relationship looked it wasn’t. It wasn’t either of our fault, shit happens sometimes and sometimes shit sucks. 

Zack and I have broke up and we didn’t give each other any false hope. Who knows what will happen in the end, but for right now this is how it’s going to be. 

You have my personal blog, and if you don’t shoot me a message if you’d like. If not. It’s cool. See you all on the flip side. Good vibes. -Socorro

Update: I feel sad about everything. I don’t know why I held onto this blog. Looking through it and eating tons of candy.. I can’t bring myself to get rid of it though. Like there’s some type of hope that maybe we’ll get together again. 
I know that it’s the right decision, but I can’t help but feel as if I should go back on it. sigh. I just miss him, and music seems to remind me too much of him. I need to fix my ukulele. 

Update Update: Fuck who knows what’s going to happen. 

Find me at my other blog.
http://mylifeas-socorro.tumblr.com

Hi guys. It’s been a long couple of days.

Over the past few weeks things have been coming up, and this weekend I finally decided that I need to be true to myself. 
I decided that I needed to break up with Zack, regardless of how perfect our relationship looked it wasn’t. It wasn’t either of our fault, shit happens sometimes and sometimes shit sucks. 

Zack and I have broke up and we didn’t give each other any false hope. Who knows what will happen in the end, but for right now this is how it’s going to be. 

You have my personal blog, and if you don’t shoot me a message if you’d like. If not. It’s cool. See you all on the flip side. Good vibes. -Socorro

Update: I feel sad about everything. I don’t know why I held onto this blog. Looking through it and eating tons of candy.. I can’t bring myself to get rid of it though. Like there’s some type of hope that maybe we’ll get together again. 
I know that it’s the right decision, but I can’t help but feel as if I should go back on it. sigh. I just miss him, and music seems to remind me too much of him. I need to fix my ukulele. 

Find me at my other blog.
http://mylifeas-socorro.tumblr.com

Hi guys. It’s been a long couple of days.

Over the past few weeks things have been coming up, and this weekend I finally decided that I need to be true to myself. 
I decided that I needed to break up with Zack, regardless of how perfect our relationship looked it wasn’t. It wasn’t either of our fault, shit happens sometimes and sometimes shit sucks. 

Zack and I have broke up and we didn’t give each other any false hope. Who knows what will happen in the end, but for right now this is how it’s going to be. 

You have my personal blog, and if you don’t shoot me a message if you’d like. If not. It’s cool. See you all on the flip side. Good vibes. -Socorro

Been busy. I have a Bio exam today & Chemistry exam tomorrow. Gunna kick them both in the ass.
Birthday is in less than a month and two days after my birthday I get to go see my love in North Carolina.
Hold on a little bit longer baby. The hard times will get better. I promise.

Bitch complaining about getting flowers. Ya joking right? Do you know how expensive nice flowers (which those were pretty fuckin nice) are? Pretty fucking expensive. I wish my boyfriend could afford to buy me flowers, but instead has to spend all of his money so he can come see me for a week. You live with your man and you have the audacity to complain about some pretty fucking nice flowers and a nice gesture. I understand that everyone has their own problems that may seem big to them and small to others, but please go jump off of a cliff right now.
/rant over

Anonymous: My ldbf wants to come visit me. We've been together for just over 4 months and he wants to come around mid' summer. I'm really wanting to see him and he's wanting to see me but at the same time I'm super nervous (what if he doesn't like me/what if we don't click). Do you have any advice for a first time ldr girl and her very first meeting?? Also, do you think it's too early to make these plans and things? Idk, I'm so worried I might lose him even though he says he's in it all the way. Thanks! <3

First of all, if you want to do it, then do it!  BUT you have to make sure that you’re ready. As for being nervous, girl, you’ll be fine. It’s the “very first meeting jitters” which is normal. I know that the morning I was going to meet Zack for the first time I spent the morning like sick and anxiety filled because of your same worries. Honestly though, there really is no reason to be afraid of those things. You guys have been able to make it through your LDR so far, and I’m sure that he likes the person you are because that’s really all he gets to know (for now). 
As for advice here’s a few things. 
-Don’t let it get awkward. Having him physically in front of you is going to be a shocker. All you’ve done so far is communicate through technology via Skype, texting, phone calls etc. So it can be a little bit weird to have him actually there in front of you, but remember, it only gets awkward if you let it. 
- Buy tickets in advance, you’re more likely to get them cheaper if you do. 
- Make sure that you’re ready for whatever the two of you want to do on the trip, don’t let him or anyone else in anyway shape or form pressure you into doing anything that you don’t want to do because “you have no idea when you’ll see each other again” (I didn’t experience this, but I have had a friend who went through that).
- Make sure that everyone (family wise if they’re involved in your life) is on the same page.
- & lastly, enjoy it girl. Enjoy every minute you have with him because you deserve it. Being in a LDR is hard work. So enjoy the time that you work hard for you know? Love on him, take lots of pictures, and don’t let him leave your side lol. 

Do YOU think it’s too early to meet/plan to meet him?

Honestly, if it feels right then do it. Zack and I met 6 months after we had been together, and about a year and a half after knowing each other. We planned in advance and bought his tickets about two months before he got here. We probably would have met sooner, but due to money and time we weren’t able to. 
No bodys opinion on this matters but your own. If you feel like you’re ready to take your LDR to the next level/change the demeanor of your relationship then do it, girl. Just know that after you meet him, and let him go it’s going to be hard. You’re going to miss him a lot more, and you’re probably going to be sad for a while. But gah, it’s the best thing ever when you meet your significant other<3 And just remember that that’s what we’re  here for. Zack and I and everyone else in the LDR community. We got your back anon. 
Be sure to send me a flick or a story or some type of update though! I’d love to hear all about it! :)
Good vibes.

jackandia: I'm so sorry the flight got canceled, I hope you're doing fine :/ stay positive, may will come around soon <3

I’m keeping it together friend. 
Hopefully we’ll get a chance to see each other before May, but we don’t know yet. 
Also, I saw that Jack’s flights got all messed up! I am sorry to hear that! I’m just glad he’s still able to make it out to you! Ahh! I cannot wait to see you two together! :)

"Long distance relationship"

  • Dad: Relationships are hard.
  • Me: Try being in a long distance relationship. Try listening to her cry, but don’t hold her or kiss her, and text her to comfort her, because you’re literally 1,000 miles away and that’s all you can do. Try seeing her over Skype and only Skype, where sometimes the call drops and the quality isn’t great. Or how about planning a trip to go see her? But wait you can’t, because you’re having financial issues. Try explaining it to your friends, try telling them why they can’t meet her. Don’t even think of planning dates, because you’ll be the only one attending them. Try fighting with distance, that shit isn’t easy because you have distance on top of it. Try sleeping alone every night after hearing I love you and cuddling with a stuffed animal that doesn’t even do the trick because you know it isn’t her. That’s the really hard type of relationship.
  • Dad: I think I’m going to cry.
  • Me: Me too.
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We’re hoping so, I was looking forward to meeting his family. Things happen though so, we’ll wait and see. Thank you from the both of us, your support means a lot :)

cheersmatecheers & my other followers as well.

I was supposed to fly out to North Carolina today, but due to unexpected weather issues it was canceled. Which was pretty devastating to me. I honestly don’t really know why, but it hit home pretty hard. I got my cancelled flight sorted out, but I’m pretty sure I’m losing 150 bucks to the airline that I was flying home on.

Sigh. I’m going to just melt away in my bed today. So sad. Much disappointment. Such sigh.